Sex Addiction Intervention

When someone is addicted, whether to alcohol or drugs, gambling, eating or sex, the lives of their friends and family can be turned upside down. Despite promises to quit, the behavior may even worsen and loved ones, out of genuine care and concern, or desperation, may consider addressing the pain such behavior is causing. There are protocols for carrying out such a successful intervention that require the professional expertise of a trained interventionist, who can convey care and understanding. Indicators for an intervention include:

• The behavior in question is causing significant damage
• Denial prevents consideration of the damage done
• The individual won’t seek help on their own
• Friends and family can change the enabling environment

The interventionist must convey care and non-judgemental understanding. The motive for intervention is to protect, not punish. An intervention is not a confrontation, but an organized expression of concern.

Sex Addiction

Possibly one of the most misunderstood addictions, sex addiction affects people in a myriad of ways. Compulsive and excessive sexual urges and actions tie the disease together with other traits. To maintain one’s image, he or she may also lie excessively and skirt confrontation, at times leading to a parallel life. The problem will often cripple personal relationships over time or prevent them from developing at all.

Characteristics indicative of sex addiction include:

• Compulsive relationships
• Exhibitionism
• Prostitution
• Dangerous sexual practices
• Indecent phone calls
• Child molestation
• Voyeurism
• Compulsive masturbation
• Incest
• Obsession with pornography
• Rape and violence

If someone you love appears to be affected by sex addiction, an intervention can be the most immediate and effective way to bring the problem to the foreground. Interventions address concerns, frustrations and implications of the disease on those around him or her, and begin the process of healing for everyone affected.

Ultimately, sex addiction interventions should empower those caught in the destructive cycle of a loved one’s addiction, providing them with tools with which to regain their own lives and lose the shame and guilt often associated with a loved one’s disease.